You had been a challenge for her. You possessed a high value and she had been irresistibly drawn to you.

And I'm going to make a wild guess here, but may it be possible that as time proceeded, you grew to become less of the challenge on her?

And may it be that at this time, you're absolutely no challenge on her? Which she knows if she wanted to, anytime she could easily get you again and twisted around her finger simply by saying the word? So you want to know How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back.

I will be crude here, but everbody knows, to turn into a challenge once again you have to demonstrate to your ex girlfriend that her sexuality does not have any more control over you. Take into consideration what it is like when you're following her with unreturned calls, voice mails, texts, and e-mail. And take into consideration what it's like whenever you keep carrying it out (being a lot of men do) even after she's told you to quit. You are indicating to the woman you are a low-value guy without any other intimate options.

She will not respect you again unless you refuse her sexual power over you. Luckily you're doing that now by not directly interacting together with her.

Ensure you stay 100% strict with your conversation cut-off. Do not be "buddies" with her, as that rewards her with all the ongoing validation of power over you while providing her a convenient excuse to stay broken up. (Your woman reasons that she's letting you down easy that way, assuaging any guilt she may go through.)

However, be sure to keep her locked in with your stuff. Probably lots of your property are at her place, and the other way round. She might even owe you cash also. She could get a common buddy of yours to inquire about you if you want the whole thing back.

The best reply to this is "No, not yet." The reason being because her keeping your stuff (and also you keeping hers) is still securing both of you in and ensuring future conversation. You don't want to give her the psychological closure that could come from settling your accounts.

For the following 3 weeks, you need to fully accept -- and embrace -- the fact that you're a completely independent man now. Take what went down with your ex-girlfriend and study from it. You've got a golden opportunity to transform your life.